I like the idea of a way to hold one’s self accountable for what is the goal.
My husband doesn’t drink and is sometimes a bit uncomfortable with the idea of me enjoying it; since he doesn’t understand how it feels it works much if it is a fear of the unknown.
But when I told him, out loud, that I have committed to only ever enjoy with others, and for it to never be a secret or private activity, he and I both felt much more comfortable with the idea of the difference with our approach.
I like the idea of a way to hold one’s self accountable for what is the goal.
My husband doesn’t drink and is sometimes a bit uncomfortable with the idea of me enjoying it; since he doesn’t understand how it feels it works much if it is a fear of the unknown.
But when I told him, out loud, that I have committed to only ever enjoy with others, and for it to never be a secret or private activity, he and I both felt much more comfortable with the idea of the difference with our approach.
Kudos for the accountability!
And what an interesting experience!